Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Engineering or Medicine?

Why not a lawyer or an artist?
Why not a Finance analyst or a teacher?
What about being a statistician?
Why not being a transcriptionist?

Do people know about these careers et al.

Recently i met my cousin,passed his tenth with flying colours .My obvious question was "what are your future plans?".Pat came the reply-I want to be a jounalist.i was so glad to hear that.My maternal aunt overhearing the conversation interrupted "What journalism?!!Thats so risky and unstable.Think about money also.Why dont you take up engineering?It will be a cakewalk for you".It is so frustrating to hear that kinda suggestion.Why dont people let others be?
A week ago my best friend got a job ,the job which she calls it as her dream job.She did her degree in Economics-statistics-maths,her subjects of interest.And i choose to clarify here.She had an amazing percentage in 12th and an equally good rank in CET.She chose her career out of her interest and iam extremely happy to see where is today.Doing wat she always wanted to do.She is working in an international bank as a finance analyst and the pay packet,i must say is too much for a starter.My point is why does everybody have to follow the same path just because you have been told to do so even though you are not meant to.
I know so many people who have been forced to choose engineering and medicine just because of parental pressure or some other obvious reason.I am sure many will not agree with me.Its just that these two popular fields are not the end.It is the challenge that matters and ultimately the job satisfaction.

35 comments:

Anonymous said...

sigh ,
u know this has been discussed so many times ,and we have gone hoarse asking people to give us the freedom to choose what we want to do,but i doubt that will ever happen to our generation .

i hope when we become parents we would be more open to other careers apart from the stereotypical med n engg courses !

RJ said...

@Bhav - Ask me about the job satisfaction!! :) Recently, I was talking to my friends sister and she told me she's doing Occupational Therapy. Like all your guys, I had no idea what that meant. It means to help a disabled person become independent. How cool can your job get!! You helping someone, doing a good deed and earning too!

I am surprised the engineering, medical thgy still happens after our education system introducing graduation courses like IT, Business Administration , Mass Media and Aviation to follow.

Bhav - This is a good post and the line breaks are fine too. Next improvement area is capitalization of the word :) I hope I am not being pricky!

Keep posting and keep smiling,
~RJ

achint said...

hey nice...smthing which ive always thought about ...yu shud always do smthing which yu wanna nt smthing which yu r forced to..an money cmes yur way yu just hav to be gud....dats all nthin more... its just that yuve got to gv yur 100% and thats only possible if yu do smthing which yu like doing(atleast in the long run) and hey i feel gud thanks:)

bhavna said...

@meg

sigh.Thats all i have to say

@rj

I ll 'capitalise' my words next time.It is ok to be pricky.

@achint

my pleasure.But,why thanks?

RJ said...

Thanks :) & it was a good post!

Anonymous said...

This post made me feel so good!! :)

I'm ging through the same phase now. Everybody around me are talking about carrers and stuff.
Their first option is always Engg or Medical !! I don't get it !! Ultimately, whats the point in doing something just for the heck of money ??
And the hell lot of competition in every school in Bangalore adds on to all the peer pressure.

Almost 90% of my class is preparing for the IIT-JEE or AIEEE or the BIT-SAT. I have no other option. They all join BASE and slog 24 hours a day !! Acc. to them, if you don't get IIT or NIT, then you are a loser !! Bah !

I so need to find whats the right thing for me to do. The problem is, I still havent realized my dreams. I'm totally confused right now :(

RJ said...

@Pri - There are creative fields too! Advertising, architect, interior designer or perhaps journalism! Anything but no engineers or doctors - this country has loads of them! I am just ranting my opinion - you have to think and jolt down your points!

All the best and make your best move!

achint said...

thanks becz yu mentioned me in d blg...:)nice keep going...

Sandeep said...

hmmm..
if only everyone knew what they really liked! :)

Actually it's not true that everyone is in for Engg or Med.. it only seems so coz we are around such people..
there are hundreds of thousands of them who choose arts and commerce..
they are many who do law.. NLSIU is preferred as much as IIT... finally it's only how much money you make at the end than the love of the field (except few)
there are hundreds of them doing graphic design..
if you see the percentage of population doing arts/commerce, they'll be more than engg/med.

If there were more Sachin Tendulkars who just loved cricket (one thing in life) more than anything else..
world would be a place of geniuses..

Great beginning Bhavna :)

bhavna said...

@pri
"There are creative fields too! Advertising, architect, interior designer or perhaps journalism! Anything but no engineers or doctors - this country has loads of them! I am just ranting my opinion - you have to think and jolt down your points!

All the best and make your best move!"

Dont worry soo much.Everything will fall into its place in another 6 months.I don hav a problem with you becomin a doc.Looks like you enjoy dissecting n al

bhavna said...

@RJ
:)

bhavna said...

@AChint
*blink-Blink*
love ya

bhavna said...

@Sandeep
I totally agree with that.But the thing is here in blore or ,may be, the whole of South India this is the isssue.If you don have an Engg/med degree they think you are an easy-goer.That sort-of attitude gets on my nerves.Anyways,about NLSIU,i wanted to mention that in my post.I was an aspirant.Found it really difficult to get in.Very few people know about NLSIU.
Not everybody thinks or knows about what they feel or like as you have rightly mentioned.Hope that knida attitude changes among everybody

And hey,Not everybody can be Sachin tendulkar.Kambli could not though he thinks cricket is his life

RJ said...

RJ smiles back at ya! :)

Btw Bhav, you could reply back to all your comments in a single comment. It would just make your life simpler. *Just an observation*

Sandeep said...

Kambli, i'm sure, doesn't love cricket as much as Sachin does.
Have you seen Sachin's interviews? He talks so passionately about cricket.. it's like he just wants to keep playing.. nothing else matters!

And that is not attitude.. that's something you are born with.. it's hard to cultivate.. actually impossible.

Sandeep said...

Hey Bhavna consider moving to Wordpress. It's much better out there.. :)

@RJ
(i know you'll read this :D)
even you do that.. you'll anyway not be earning much from the ads you've put.. at least i don't click :P

bhavna said...

@Sandeep
I said kambli 'thinks' cricket is his life..Anyway,that was just one way of telling that everybody cant be sachin..And about developing attitudes..There is something like getting inspired and al that..i meant it that way..Your perception is different from mine...so lets leave it there..:)
Wordpress...hmm..will think about it...

@Rj

I was just giving special importance to people.Thats al:)

Sandeep said...

yup, not everybody can like one thing so much :)

so, when'll i visit http://www.wasshappening2day.wordpress.com/ ?? :)

RJ said...

@Bhav - Oh! Importance and all. If that's the case you can reply back to my comment separately. But for Sandeep reply back with a million ppl :D (And I know he's reading this!!!)

@San - I am not moving to wordpress for a zillion bucks!! :D and the reason is coz' you asked me to move :D :D

http://www.wasshappening2day.wordpress.com/ ????????
This is like forcing people...HUH!!

:)

Anonymous said...

Nice discussiong here!!

Looks like I've found so many councillors already !! :D

@ Bhavana and RJ : How about moving to wordpress ??

I too was @ Blogger initially. Moved to WP !! It is a totally different and a better interface !

Cool Themes, Widgets and Pages* !

Anonymous said...

Oh, I forgot to mention.
Word Press has an "import" option through which you can import all your previous posts and comments from another blog !! What say ?? :D

Sandeep said...

@RJ
you've no reason to join hate sandeep club.. i ignored megs not you!!

Now priya is on same page as me ;)

bhavna said...

@san & pri
Nice advertising.God knows why you are marketing WP soo much??
Is it soo good?!.I will try it soon...Need some more time with Blogger.Attached, you see.
But i guess you will defenetely see me on wordpress one day...

bhavna said...

@RJ
Why you angry??Take a chill-pill..
And the reason you hate wordpress is..???

RJ said...

@Pri - Moving onto WP - still not sure about it *deciding*. The import function might help me make my decision :)

@San - I have no reason, but it would be so much just to hate you for no reason. Anyways, I support Megs :). I will lure Bhavna and Pri also with chocolates and its gonna be so much fun...hurray! :D


@Bhav - I think they get money when they talk about WP. They are illegal brand ambassadors - if there can be such a thgy :D. Btw, bhav buds I am not angry at all. I dont hate WP, I just love blogspot more :D

bhavna said...

@RJ
LOL!Illegal brand ambassadors making money...great excuse to switch to wordpress

RJ said...

@Bhav - dekhna..I am sure they all are hating it and just jealous coz' we are not in their trap yet.

*Grapes are sour*

@ All ilegal ambassadors - Heheh...we will switch when we feel like. Hows that for an attitude? :D

RJ said...

Badi badi baatein!!

@Bhav - This is called emotional blackmail!!! Don't get into the trap :D

bhavna said...

@San
Crptography:
'No man's land'=Blogspot;(THats too much underestimation) and
Bhav,RJ='REFUGEES'.(WTF??).HUH?!
'New place'=WP(Ok..Why on earth is it called wordpress??Derived from Printpress??..So lame)
'SAviors'=san,meg,priya(Illegal brand ambassadors)

I have second thoughts on joing WP now..:p

@RJ
As you can see i am not emotionally blackmailed at al..Did you ??

RJ said...

@Bhav - Wheew! Wheeew! Like that - hurray! I knew you were a tough nut to blackmail but I was scared if you could incline towards the geek/nerd/rockstar thoughts! :D :P

@San - Thats' the "Bhav G Power" for you! :P What you gotta say?

Sandeep said...

@Bhavna
You join Wordpress and then see...
Only then you'll start appreciating that..

Even Megs changed from blogspot to that..
so did i and Pri

RJ said...

@Bhav - "Iske baaton mein a jaao" :D

Anonymous said...

Hey, this post may make a good article at Youth Unite. I want to know if we can get the permission to publish it there.
Check out YU and reply asap.

Please Note : The authors name the the blog link will be mentioned in the post.

-Priya,
Youth Unite administrator

bhavna said...

@Priya

Hey1 thanks...I will check it out asap

Achala said...

hey this piece makes sense...read it.. and thank you for the comment... :)